Stronger together: the power of song

I went to a fab community singing event on Sunday night to raise money for the charity My Israel | ישראל שלי who I didn’t know too much about until last night actually even though I have been following them on and off online mainly since October 7th.

However, after finding out exactly what they do after their initial presentation and video, I felt compelled to take part in their raffle – it was the least I could do. It was something I could do within my control to help those in Israel to work through, heal and recover from their trauma, to be able to rebuild their lives, to be able to see the brighter side of life, to achieve all that they dream of and simply enjoy their lives again – and do simple things that many of you might take for granted – connect with their families and friends after everything they have experienced, whether from October 7th, the current war, or other traumatic experiences they have had to face in their lives.

So, back to yesterday’s community event, the raffle involved only those of us with rectangular yellow stickers on our tops which we were given when we bought a ticket – to make it clear in the room who was participating in the activity they were planning to do on stage later on in the second half of the evening with the audience after we had taken a short break. We had to guess whether one of the guys on stage was tossing the coin heads or tails, and we either had to put our hands on our heads or else on our bottoms. It was a bit more of a dynamic way of doing a raffle but fun nevertheless! There were about 4 or 5 rounds of this before they announced the 8 raffle prize winners who were left standing. I managed two rounds and then I had to stand down so I got no prize sadly! Another time maybe I will have more luck.

I always love getting involved where I can in these kinds of community singing events as it’s always such an uplifting experience and getting together as a community always helps make our world feel a bit brighter and much more joyful and connected. Our feelings of resilience and love for Israel also grow when we learn a song at these kinds of events when we focus on singing all the different harmonies together side by side, whatever our level and experience of singing.

We sang the song “Lean on Me” – a song sung originally by Bill Withers in 1972 – which was a great song with the kind of positive messaging we needed to hear as a community at this difficult time.

“Sometimes in our lives we all have pain
We all have sorrow
But if we are wise
We know that there’s always tomorrow
Lean on me, when you’re not strong
And I’ll be your friend
I’ll help you carry on
For it won’t be long
‘Til I’m gonna need
Somebody to lean on”

(Lean on Me lyrics © Capitol CMG Publishing, Universal Music Publishing Group)

The choir leader Hilla Moshenson was fabulous and kept us on our feet, made us laugh and helped us continually improve our performance with her tips and advice. She has an amazing voice so was a hard act to follow, but she did get me singing soprano which I don’t normally sing which is a little bit out of my comfort zone. Normally, in my local Rock Choir sessions, I sing in the lower altos but it is fun singing the higher notes and can sometimes get you feeling a bit giddy but always in a good way! Time went quickly and spirits were high by the end.

Here’s a recording of what we sang last night:

MyIsrael do incredible work. They help teens who struggle with addiction, isolation, and neglect. They help the elderly. They help women and men devastated by October 7th heal through therapy, holistic care, and giving them the strength to rebuild. They have a whole range of different projects including the use of art, animal and yoga therapy to help people through their trauma – they provide a safe space for people to be themselves, feel alive within and not defined by their trauma. A well-worthy cause.

Do check out MyIsrael charity’s website for more information about what they do.

Paddington is a must-see

Last Sunday, I went with my son to see “Paddington the musical” at the Savoy theatre in town. We went with the Jewish Deaf Association (JDA) as part of their D Club where they host different kinds of activities for the kids whether it’s cupcake decorating, trampolining, art workshops, or going to the theatre, and other things too that I’m sure I’ve missed off the list. They get very good deals on the theatre due to everyone having some level of hearing loss, that we got seats for £10 for each child and the carer goes free.

It was an amazing experience. I was a bit worried at first as we we’re in the dress circle and wondering why we were all placed there, I then saw a couple of screens in front of me with subtitles which got me excited as I’ve never had this experience before at the theatre. Also, as well as being able to catch up on missed speech during the show, there were lots of speakers around where we were sitting and the sound quality was really good which also made a big difference. So even though I was higher up than I originally thought we would be, it worked out well due to all these adaptations for people with hearing loss like me, and also those with cochlear implants.

I loved the show – I would totally recommend it for kids but also for adults too. It had some lovely messaging, and Paddington was so adorable. It was great to see how some of the characters changed their tune and fell in love with the bear. It did get me feeling quite emotional by the end as the show was very heart-warming and exactly what I needed to hear that day. It was a big rush to get to the theatre but it was totally worth it once I got there.

Plus at the end – a bonus – we got to meet Paddington after the show – including the guy who did the voice of Paddington and the little lady dwarf who dressed as Paddington. She was lovely to chat to – it was funny because my 9 year old son was confused as to why she could just leave on her own to walk the streets of London as she was smaller than him!

This theatre trip has also prompted me to look into getting an Access card as I could get some benefits and experience something similar again when going to the theatre. It’s good not to miss out on so much – and makes such a difference when I can easily hear what people are saying, something I never take for granted. For further information on captioned performances, you can visit Stagetext but it was also really handy to receive an Access performance guide in the post a few days after I saw Paddington – sent to me by the JDA – but which I have since also seen published online on the Official London Theatre’s website that you can download to view the upcoming performances that have special access arrangements for people with hearing loss like me. It would be lovely to have this experience again at the theatre which put me at ease and helped me to enjoy the show much more.